I WANTED to discuss a very interesting topic with you today Natasha’s Notebook snoopers… women and what they wear.
Dress like a woman
A chat with a friend the other week left me convinced that women should actually dress like women… feminine. She added: “No wonder men turn to porn, they have nothing to look at during the day!”
Okay, her comment was quite extreme but this is a woman who dresses for her man. And she LOVES it! She wears heals and hold-ups and pretty dresses.
Let me wear what I want
Then, on another occasion I was nattering with a different friend who said: “I’m fed up with men poking their nose and making comments on my appearance”.
The woman in question was particularly annoyed with her father, who said she looked skinny. It was at this point that I thought every woman would like that kind of comment.
Comfort or dressing to impress?
Anyway what I am trying to ascertain is this… dressing for comfort or dressing to impress ~ which is best?
I once read somewhere that French women dress to show off their bodies while English women dress to hide them.
My fiance’ loves to see me, what’s the word… looking glamorous.
When I told this to my first friend, mentioned above, her reaction was this: “Listen Nat, if your boobs were hanging out or your skirt the size of a belt then yes… you should feel on show. But not if you’re wearing flattering clothes that simply enhance the figure.”
Maybe she’s born with it?
I once had a colleague who just oozed ‘I’m so comfortable in the skin I’m in’… a very carefree person to be around. She wore whatever her heart desired and always looked fabulous.
Put on and go!
So what’s the answer? I think as soon as you decide what to wear, put it on and forget about it for the rest of the day:0)
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